Workshops

Learn about in-person and online courses, talks and workshops that I'm running.

Upcoming events

Beyond Darklands Masterclasses


November - March online

3 - 9 March in person, Antwerp

(various prices)


For the fourth year running, the team from Consciously Kinky are coordinating the Masterclasses at Darklands this year. We've expanded even further and this year there will be almost 70 classes covering everything from hypnosis to nullos, politics to bondage, personas to cigar play.


We will also be personally running the following sessions:


Beyond Darklands for Beginners

27 November 2025 (online)

3 December 2025 (online)

3 February 2026 (online)

20 February 2026 (online)

1 March 2026 (online)


New to Beyond Darklands? Learn everything you need to know about the event from our Darklands Education Team (from ConsciouslyKinky.org). Learn how to navigate your way around this massive event, from understanding the wristbands, to which are the best toilets to use, we cover it all. What to pack. Where to go to meet people. What models of consent to expect. When to go to the market and when the best time to rest is. PLUS meet other newbies. So if if you’re coming alone you’ll get to see some friendly faces to connect with in the bars, dance floors and maybe in the darkroom (or hotel bedroom)!


Learn more and book on the Beyond Darklands Website


Mental Health in Kink Spaces

28 February 2026 (online)


You’d think that kinky spaces were all about feeling horny, sexy, happy and joyous. But too many people can also feel shame, fear, anxiety, imposter syndrome, lonely or disappointed. Many often feel a drop in mood and energy after events. How do you know if you’re alone in feeling the way you do? How do you know if it’s appropriate? How can you overcome it and be the person your mind is telling you to be? Where can you get help if you’re badly impacted by the emotions or feelings you have? English Leather Master and English Leather Master’s sub from consciouslykinky.org who are trained mental health professionals, will give an overview of what pushes our emotional buttons in BDSM and offer practical tips for overcoming some of the darker emotions that can hold us back.


Learn more and book on the Beyond Darklands Website


Developing your Kinky Persona: Hypnotically

5 March 2026 (Beyond Darklands, Antwerp)


Who do you want to be at Beyond Darklands? An alpha top? A mindless himbo? A sexy slut? A willing slave? Whichever persona you want to embody, this class will combine hypnotic trance work with persona building to help you through the weekend. No experience of hypnosis necessary… but come with an idea of what you’d like to become (even if it’s not fully formed). As an accredited coach and hypnotherapist, English Leather Master from ConsciouslyKinky will bring his experience and knowledge to this class for you to take forward.


Learn more and book on the Beyond Darklands Website


Overcoming Insecurities in the Fetish Scene

5 March 2026 (Beyond Darklands, Antwerp)


More people than you know find kink scenes places that fill them with shame or insecurities. Whether you’re worried about your body or finding friends, you’re not alone. This class considers where our shame or other feelings come from, suggests practical ways to overcome them this weekend, and points you in the direction of getting even more help long term. English Leather Master and his sub (from ConsciouslyKinky) are accredited Mental Health professionals who help people in the community they will unpick the topic of insecurities and offer hints and tips to defeat them.


Learn more and book on the Beyond Darklands Website


Pain Essentials

5 March 2026 (Beyond Darklands, Antwerp)


Pain 101. Experienced in BDSM English Leather Master and his sub host this popular class covers the basics of pain play. Why do we like pain, how can we take more, what is safe, what happens when things go wrong. In this class we will cover everything from negotiation and safe words, to types of pain, what neuro chemicals are released, where you can safely hit someone and how can you create a session to build and build to take more… and of course the importance of aftercare.


Learn more and book on the Beyond Darklands Website


Sub Space

6 March 2026 (Beyond Darklands, Antwerp)


Doms may think that they rule the world, and they certainly seem to do a lot of talking, but us subs have challenges, feelings and needs too. In a world where it feels like subs don’t have much of a voice and we can feel isolated, this class will be an open and safe space for subs to come together and discuss their challenges, needs, problems and thoughts and support each other. Whilst this class is predominantly aimed at submissives, all are welcome. Doms, though, will be respectfully asked to listen more than they talk. This class will be led by ELM’s Sub from ConsciouslyKinky.org who is a sub known in the community, and is also a mental health professional. We may also allow English Leather Master, also from ConsciouslyKinky to contribute!


Learn more and book on the Beyond Darklands Website


Cuddle Huddle

8 March 2026 (Beyond Darklands, Antwerp)


Beyond Darklands can be an amazing place to explore your sexuality, but sometimes the sex can come without connection. This workshop will flip the script, allowing you to get physical connection without words and without taking your clothes off or even getting turned on. Come ready for hugs and cuddles (so wear comfortable clothes). A quiet space in the middle of an intense weekend run by English Leather Master, an accredited coach and hypnotherapist from ConsciouslyKinky.


Learn more and book on the Beyond Darklands Website



CLAW


April 2 - 5 2026, Columbus Ohio


We will be running Speed Dating at CLAW - so come along if you're looking for love, or a playdate, or something deep, meaningful and kinky.


We will also be running the following talks:


Beyond the 100% Active / 100% Submissive Binary


A workshop discussing how scene expectations about "how roles should behave" can create shame. This class will help you express what you actually want, and get the connection and fun that you want, deserve, and need.


Overcoming Insecurities in the Kink World


Understand how events trigger self-doubt and navigate them with more confidents.


Hypnopatch: Becoming Who You Need To Be


Using hypnotic techniques to step into the version of yourself you need in play, relationships, or life.


Learn more and register on the CLAW Website.


Introduction to Hypnosis


Weekly Tuesday 9 June - Tuesday 23 June (Online)


Re-running my popular basic hypnosis course for complete beginners. This time online.


This is the perfect starting point for people who want to learn about hypnosis. It's completely kink aware but gives you skills to use throughout your life. It's also a great way to learn the basics if you'd like to attend the in-person course during Fetish Week.


Learn more and book on OutSavvy



Fetish Week London


July 5 - 12 2026, London UK


From a full weekend retreat to free one-hour Masterclasses, we're offering a plethora of activities during Fetish Week London. So many that we've put together a separate page to talk about what we're doing. 


Click here to head to our FWL page.




Previous events

This is just a selection of the recent workshops and talks we've given.


Matthew has given workshops and talks in 13 countries across the world, from Shanghai to Cleveland, Jakarta to Dubai. They've ranged from pain play to how to teach A-level Physics and even how to write multiple choice questions.


Paul has given talks and run workshops across England, Antwerp, Belgium, Berlin, Germany and Cleveland, USA.


Darklands (Coordinator of the Masterclasses - managing 53 masterclasses with over 1000 tickets sold)

Antwerp, Belgium, 2020, 2022, 2023, 2024, 2025

Developing your Kinky Persona

Darklands for beginners

Shame

Pain play

Hypnosis for beginners


International Gay Coaches Conference

Online 2020 - 2024, in person 2023, 2024

Finding, refining and redefining your niche

The Card Game

Marketing your coaching business

Kink Skills in the Workplace: Punishment & reward


Kink Fest

Birmingham 2023, 2024, 2025

Shame

Boundaries

Pain 101

Rest through BDSM


London Fetish Week

London, 2025 (Sponsor of Masterclasses)

Pain 101

Insecurities in the Fetish Scene

Subs' Space

Hypnopatch


London, 2024 (Sponsor of Masterclasses)

Kink Skills in the Workplace

Overcoming Shame

Pain 101


London, 2023

Kink Skills in the Workplace

Shame

Hypnosis for beginners


Dating Kinky

Online, 2022-2024

Two Sides to Dominance webinar series


CLAW

Cleveland, OH, USA 2022, 2023

Shame

Hypnosis for relaxation

Boundaries


WBECS

Online July 2022

Coaching LGBT+ people