Workshops
Learn about in-person and online courses, talks and workshops that I'm running.
Upcoming events
On this page find out more about workshops and events we're running in the next few months.
Breathwork Transformation
Monthly, London UK
Use your breath for emotional exploration
A place to connect, and to explore your inner world. A combination of deep breathing, a curated soundscape, life vocal guidance and optional somatic touch. Release the emotions you've got deep inside, in a totally safe, affirming space.
Buy your tickets from OutSavvy
Fetish Week London
July 5 - 12 2026, London UK
A weekend retreat, Masterclasses and workshops
From a full weekend retreat to free one-hour Masterclasses, we're offering a plethora of activities during Fetish Week London. So many that we've put together a separate page to talk about what we're doing.
Click here to head to our FWL page.
Previous events
This is just a selection of the recent workshops and talks we've given.
Matthew has given workshops and talks in 13 countries across the world, from Shanghai to Cleveland, Jakarta to Dubai. They've ranged from pain play to how to teach A-level Physics and even how to write multiple choice questions.
Paul has given talks and run workshops across England, Antwerp, Belgium, Berlin, Germany and Cleveland, USA.
Power, Presence and Intimacy
Essex, 2026
An in-person weekend long retreat for GBTQ+ and kinky men.
Darklands (Coordinators of the Masterclasses - managing 57 masterclasses with over 1300 tickets sold each year)
Antwerp, Belgium, 2020, 2022, 2023, 2024, 2025, 2026
Developing your Kinky Persona
Darklands for beginners
Shame
Pain play
Hypnosis for beginners
Hypnopatch
Cuddle Huddle
Mental Health in Kink Spaces
International Gay Coaches Conference
Online 2020 - 2024, in person 2023, 2024
Finding, refining and redefining your niche
The Card Game
Marketing your coaching business
Kink Skills in the Workplace: Punishment & reward
Kink Fest
Birmingham 2023, 2024, 2025
Shame
Boundaries
Pain 101
Rest through BDSM
London Fetish Week
London, 2025 (Sponsor of Masterclasses)
Pain 101
Insecurities in the Fetish Scene
Subs' Space
Hypnopatch
London, 2024 (Sponsor of Masterclasses)
Kink Skills in the Workplace
Overcoming Shame
Pain 101
London, 2023
Kink Skills in the Workplace
Shame
Hypnosis for beginners
Dating Kinky
Online, 2022-2024
Two Sides to Dominance webinar series
CLAW
Cleveland, OH, USA 2022, 2023
Shame
Hypnosis for relaxation
Boundaries
Columbus, OH, USA 2026
Hypnosis Panel
HypnoPatch
Insecurities in the Kink Scene
Beyond the 100% top - 100% bottom binary
WBECS
Online July 2022
Coaching LGBT+ people
