Workshops

Upcoming events

Fetish Week London Events

Wednesday 9 July - Recon Masterclasses @Electrowerks 

(£20 ticket, or part of weekly FWL tickets)

6:00-7:00 pm Dom / sub patches (Matthew)

Matthew will be showing you how to use future visioning, plus a bit of light hypnosis, to become the person you want to be for parties, for play, or even in your job!

8:30-9:30 pm Overcoming Insecurity (both Matthew & Paul)

We will be taking a deep dive into WHAT you want from the fetish scene, WHY you may be feeling insecurity and HOW you can overcome it (both in the long term and with some hints and tips for immediate changes)

9:45-10:45 Subs' Space (Paul)

Paul will be hosting a safe space for subs to explore your needs, your challenges, and - finally - give subs a space without Doms leading the conversation. Doms are allowed to join, but for once they need to keep quiet. 

Learn more about the Masterclasses here.

Thursday 10 July - Recon Social Hub @Electrowerks 

(£5 ticket, or part of weekly FWL tickets)

5:45-6:45 pm Pain Play 101 (both Matthew & Paul)

We’re re-running our popular introduction to pain play. We’ll be talking about everything form the difference between BDSM and abuse, through how to plan a scene, to what hormones are involved. 

Learn more about the Social Hub here.

Friday 11 July - Recon Social Hub @Electrowerks 

(£5 ticket, or part of weekly FWL tickets)

7:00-8:00 pm Seven types of Rest in BDSM (Matthew)

Did you know that there are seven ways you can rest… and we can get them all in different areas of our lives, including through fetish? Find out how we can mindfully use kink to reduce stress and feel better.

Learn more about the Social Hub here.

An introduction to practical hypnosis

for LGBTQ+ and kinky people - in person

Saturday 12 July 2025

Sunshine International Arts

9:30am - 5:00 pm

Learn how to use hypnosis to help people... or for fun.

Find out more about this full day workshop, and buy tickets here.

Previous events

This is just a selection of the recent workshops and talks I've given.

I have given workshops and talks in 13 countries across the world, from Shanghai to Cleveland, Jakarta to Dubai. They've ranged from pain play to how to teach A-level Physics and even how to write multiple choice questions.

Darklands (Coordinator of the Masterclasses - managing 53 masterclasses with over 1000 tickets sold)

Antwerp, Belgium, 2020, 2022, 2023, 2024, 2025

Developing your Kinky Persona

Darklands for beginners

Shame

Pain play

Hypnosis for beginners

International Gay Coaches Conference

Online 2020 - 2024, in person 2023, 2024

Finding, refining and redefining your niche

The Card Game

Marketing your coaching business

Kink Skills in the Workplace: Punishment & reward

Kink Fest

Birmingham 2023, 2024

Shame

Boundaries

Pain 101

Rest through BDSM

London Fetish Week

London, 2024 (Sponsor of Masterclasses)

Kink Skills in the Workplace

Overcoming Shame

Pain 101

London, 2023

Kink Skills in the Workplace

Shame

Hypnosis for beginners

Dating Kinky

Online, 2022-2024

Two Sides to Dominance webinar series

CLAW

Cleveland, OH, USA 2022, 2023

Shame

Hypnosis for relaxation

Boundaries

WBECS

Online July 2022

Coaching LGBT+ people