Fetish Week London
Events we are running during Fetish Week London
You’re not alone if putting on the gear helps you look the part while underneath you still feel unsure.
Whether it’s leather for the scene or a suit for the boardroom, many people feel like they don’t fully belong.
ConsciouslyKinky offers support, education and spaces for people who want to explore or to go deeper.
The fetish stores sell you the gear.
The scene and apps offer the opportunities.
We offer the mental and emotional support, and tools to take you deeper.
Many, if not most, of our clients have some feelings of putting on a show in their lives. Whether it's hiding who you are from your loved ones to feeling out of place in your work or on the scene.
Common themes for clients:
- Confidence on the scene
- Dating and relationships
- Squaring being submissive with leadership at work
- Growing older as an LGBTQ+ person
- Identity and self-worth
- Anxiety and overwhelm (especially for neurodivergent people)
- Intimacy and connection
Some people want one-to-one support. Others want community, exploration or practical tools.
Look around our website to see what we have to offer.
Plus, we're also offering a number of things online and in-person before and during Fetish Week London.
- Power, Presence and Intimacy: A retreat for GBTQ+ or kinky men who want to understand who they are.
- HypnoPatch: A free online hypnosis session to help you step into a new version of yourself.
- Basic and Advanced Hypnosis training to help you play better, and make changes for other people.
- Recon Masterclasses covering a number of subjects in the BDSM and kink world.
Power, Presence & Intimacy
Friday 3 July - Sunday 5 July, Essex
The weekend before Fetish Week London, we're gathering a group of GBTQ+ men for a full weekend retreat in a private country location an hour outside of London.
This isn't a play weekend. This is going deep. Really uncovering who you are, what makes you tick, what holds you back. This weekend will change your life as a man, as a kinky person and as a human being.
No one has run a kink-aware retreat like this before. It's going to be very special.
Click here for details and tickets on OutSavvy
HypnoPatch
Tuesday 26 May or Monday 1 June (Online)
A hypnotic way to become who you want to be
In this very special free online event, you'll learn how hypnosis can help change you to become the person you want to be. Plus, we'll unpick the hypnosis afterwards so you can find out how it works.
Do you ever wish you were different in specific situations?
- More confident in the office
- More outgoing in the bar
- More energetic in the club
- More focused in your study
- More sensual in the bedroom
Imagine that you were able to put a patch on your arm just before going into that situation to become the person you want to be. Like a nicotine patch, but filled with confidence, energy, sexiness or whatever you need.
Learn more and book on OutSavvy
Going Deeper with Hypnosis
Saturday 11 July, Central London
For the last three years, I've run an 'Introduction to Hypnosis' session at each Fetish Week. This year, we're going deeper.
Designed for people with a bit of experience of hypnosis, this course will help you guide your subject deeper. Whether you use hypnosis to help people, or for kinky play, this course will give you tools to make more effective change.
Click here for details and tickets on OutSavvy.
Introduction to Hypnosis (Online)
Weekly Tuesday 9 June - Tuesday 23 June
6:00pm - 8:15pm (UK time)
Re-running my popular basic hypnosis course for complete beginners. This time online.
This is the perfect starting point for people who want to learn about hypnosis. It's completely kink aware but gives you skills to use throughout your life. It's also a great way to learn the basics if you'd like to attend the in-person course during Fetish Week.
Click here for details and tickets on OutSavvy.
Recon Masterclasses
Wednesday 8 July, Electrowerkz, London
We're sponsoring the Recon Masterclasses again, as part of our commitment to help the LGBTQ+ and kink communities.
We're running three sessions:
Mental Health in Kink spaces
How do the stresses people feel affect them? As a community, if we understand our own, and other’s mental health needs, we all gain. This overview presentation gives practical ways to help ourselves and others be more aware of what affects mental health in the LGBTQ+ and kink worlds.
Beyond the Binary
Recon allows us to classify ourselves on a scale of active to passive, but we can fall into the trap of thinking that choosing a percentage means that everything else is chosen for us. Can you be a dominant bottom? A side who likes subbing? A non-sexual switch? Recognising the other scales we could add to our understanding of ourselves allows us to be more precise in explaining who we are and what we are looking for.
Sub’s Space
Doms get all the attention, but there are more subs and they have a right to be heard. In this subs-first space, submissives will be able to enjoy a shared space where doms are pushed to the back and have to ask permission to talk. Subs, meanwhile will help each other with challenges, questions and requests for support.
